I joined Facebook a little less than a year ago. I thought it would be a great way to keep in touch with family, who mostly live in a different state than me.
In some ways, Facebook is great, as it makes it easier to keep in touch with people I haven’t talked with in a long time. Most of my cousins are on Facebook, as well as high school classmates.
However, the main way to keep in touch with other people is through status updates. For my dad and sister who frequently update, it is great. Knowing what someone is doing during their day, no matter how inane, is a great way to feel closer to someone. But, for the vast majority of my Facebook friends who never post anything, I don’t really get anything out of being their “friend.” At the very least though, Facebook serves as a great address book.
Another issue is that Facebook needs some way of simplifying or curbing requests. For some time, I was getting tons of FarmTown, FarmVille, or FarmWorld requests of some sort. Also, anytime the user takes a quiz or uses some sort of application, the notifications are polluted with things related to that application, even when it is no longer of any interest (i.e. a personality quiz I took months ago).
Something that has been bothering me recently is that Facebook, and perhaps any other social networking site, at it’s core really just encourages little more than superficial relationships, but maybe that is just for men. My family was going through a health issue involving one of us, which looks like it is resolved now. I don’t mean to be petty or try to have people feel sorry for us, but during this experience I found that silly or superficial posts (of which I have done plenty) usually receive much more attention than posts involving something going on with my family. Then again, perhaps Facebook isn’t the best avenue for such things; it can be hard to properly respond to serious issues in a little comment the size of a text message.
For people who are slightly OCD and like checking things like email, Facebook adds another thing to check. I still use it and there is some value gained. Of chief importance is that it does allow me to keep in contact more with a few immediate family members.